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Post by chainbreaker on Jun 28, 2017 16:22:23 GMT -5
i dont understand the words been thrown around, im about to hit my mid 20's. I'm not that old. But i sure as hell feel old right now.
what is a fuccbois... and what is a fuckboy? am i either of these things? what does it mean, is it bad? Does everyone still hate men. Don't let a bad experience put u off finding love with da 1. they are out there 4 u, i believe in u xxx.
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Post by windsofdismay on Jun 28, 2017 17:16:05 GMT -5
huge difference between fuccbois and fuckboys tho pl0x do me an explain, apparently I ain't fluent in this young lingo fuccboi = mean, clingy fuckboy fuckboy = fuckboy who means good
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Post by windsofdismay on Jun 28, 2017 17:19:36 GMT -5
i dont understand the words been thrown around, im about to hit my mid 20's. I'm not that old. But i sure as hell feel old right now. what is a fuccbois... and what is a fuckboy? am i either of these things? what does it mean, is it bad? Does everyone still hate men. Don't let a bad experience put u off finding love with da 1. they are out there 4 u, i believe in u xxx. . youre probably none of those things i dont really hate men its just the easy way to put it when your last 300 boys treated you like shit most women who say it probably dont really hate men (not all of them at least I GUESS I DONT KNOW) good advice thank you
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Post by windsofdismay on Jun 28, 2017 17:20:31 GMT -5
this escalated more quickly than i thought it would. i would like to explain: abaf all boys are fuckboys deep down Wait wait wait, doesn't almost EVERYONE like sex? So aren't we all just fuckPEOPLE? WHY DOES THEIR NEED TO BE LABELS? Nah fam theres asexual people but yeah probably i havent dated women so i wouldnt know the other side
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Post by Velocity on Jun 28, 2017 17:32:21 GMT -5
Wait wait wait, doesn't almost EVERYONE like sex? So aren't we all just fuckPEOPLE? WHY DOES THEIR NEED TO BE LABELS? Nah fam theres asexual people but yeah probably i havent dated women so i wouldnt know the other side I was mostly kidding. But there are plenty of guys out there who aren't fuckboy's. Not that I'm a general example, but I never was growing up, I just was me. You gotta find someone who isn't afraid to be themselves and that you can be compatible with! That's more important than the sex side of things anyway. Everyone has relationships where the other person is just not a good person or fucks you over, but that's okay...it's basically just like practice for the real thing. Hell, I had a girl start dating two other guys behind my back when she was dating me. Hid it for a while. Then casually dropped it on me like I would be okay with it. Ha. But as much as that sucked, it helped me when meeting my current wife, ya know? Anyway, I'm probably rambling, but just keep being yourself and at some point you'll find a great match.
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Post by Zeke on Jun 29, 2017 0:37:04 GMT -5
pl0x do me an explain, apparently I ain't fluent in this young lingo fuccboi = mean, clingy fuckboy fuckboy = fuckboy who means good TIL yeah I agree with Velocity. I think I've been only on the receiving end of treated bad. When the relationship turns sour and I feel I can't care about the other person the way they should be cared, I end it. Sorry to hear you've had bad experience, hope that's gonna change. Like Velo said, it's a learning experience at least and hopefully you'll be able to take away some warning signs and know when someone is a shitty person who won't treat you the way you deserve.
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Post by Zeke on Jun 29, 2017 0:38:05 GMT -5
Nah fam theres asexual people but yeah probably i havent dated women so i wouldnt know the other side I was mostly kidding. But there are plenty of guys out there who aren't fuckboy's. Not that I'm a general example, but I never was growing up, I just was me. You gotta find someone who isn't afraid to be themselves and that you can be compatible with! That's more important than the sex side of things anyway. Everyone has relationships where the other person is just not a good person or fucks you over, but that's okay...it's basically just like practice for the real thing. Hell, I had a girl start dating two other guys behind my back when she was dating me. Hid it for a while. Then casually dropped it on me like I would be okay with it. Ha. But as much as that sucked, it helped me when meeting my current wife, ya know? Anyway, I'm probably rambling, but just keep being yourself and at some point you'll find a great match. q4t, because you seem like a super cool cat, and I truly believe in this (and u, xoxo)
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Post by stayxgold on Jun 29, 2017 1:32:29 GMT -5
Nah fam theres asexual people but yeah probably i havent dated women so i wouldnt know the other side .....but just keep being yourself and at some point you'll find a great match. Or you don't. Which wouldn't be the end of the world either. I don't hate men at all. I just don't understand how they work. I'm 30 years old and men still surprise me with their weird, irrational behaviour all the time
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Post by Glitch on Jun 29, 2017 2:29:10 GMT -5
.....but just keep being yourself and at some point you'll find a great match. Or you don't. Which wouldn't be the end of the world either. I don't hate men at all. I just don't understand how they work. I'm 30 years old and men still surprise me with their weird, irrational behaviour all the time What's irrational to you might be pretty rational to someone else. Don't know about what you're talking about tho, so I don't wanna trigger a bad experience cause by a huge dumbass in your life.
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Post by stayxgold on Jun 29, 2017 2:45:28 GMT -5
Or you don't. Which wouldn't be the end of the world either. I don't hate men at all. I just don't understand how they work. I'm 30 years old and men still surprise me with their weird, irrational behaviour all the time What's irrational to you might be pretty rational to someone else. Don't know about what you're talking about tho, so I don't wanna trigger a bad experience cause by a huge dumbass in your life. You're absolutely right. I do think a lot of it are just misunderstandings. Which doesn't make it less frustrating though haha. Just a recent example: Dated this guy for a while. Told him from the start that I do not have the time for anything serious at the moment. Still gets mad at me when I say I can't hang out because I'm busy. Now started telling people I'm a slut only used him for sex. Texted me last nite though. ha. Or my friend who dated this one dude. Everything went great and then all of a sudden he stopped calling/texting. Just nothing. Maybe he got hit by a bus or something...
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Post by Blacksalt on Jun 29, 2017 10:01:31 GMT -5
Ok, So I'm married, it's been about 6 years we've been together, and 4 that we've been married. I love my wife, and she loves me, and we get a long pretty good 95% of the time. What this particular post was referring to was that occasionally it feels like I have to apologize to her for wanting to live my life outside of the parameters of what's normal in a basic marriage. Now, I know what you're thinking, and stop thinking it. I don't want to fuck other women or anything, what I do want sometimes is the freedom to stay out all night and get smashed at a show, and then not have to apologize for being a hungover mess the next day. I don't party a lot anymore, i'm 38 years old, but when I do, I like to make it count. The fact is, when you get married, you end up having to apologize occasionally for living your life. My wife understands for the most part, and she doesn't get high and mighty and pissed off at me if i'm hungover, but she does give me the disappointing looks and disapproving glances when i'm at home the next day stuffing my face with Wendy's and watching shitty movies to satiate my hangover. Again, it's not an every weekend occurrence, probably happens a couple times a month at best (usually when a really good band comes through town). So yeah, that's what I was getting at. Now I don't want you to think my Wife is some kinda stepford wive style chick who's perfect and doesn't like to throw down, cause that's not true, she's just by far the responsible one in the relationship. Is your wife in the same music scene as you? If no, then try to look at this example: your wife starts going to rave parties, stays out till 3-5am jumping around to this ear cancer music intoxicated, and the next day she is unable to do anything with you and you see her in a state that is not the best for her. Wouldn't you disapprove it? Obviously you wouldn't say anything, but it'd bug you. No, I get that totally. She's not into the same music as I am, but that being said she knew who I was and what I was into when we met so it's not at all something she's had to get used to since we were married. Also, I'm not doing this every weekend, and I don't make plans the next day if I can help it. I appreciate that she cares about me being a lump of shit the next day but she knows I need to blow off steam and this is my outlet. I suppose I'm just frustrated that she thinks I should 'grow up'. I'm never gonna stop loving hitting up shows and having a few beverages.
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Post by Zeke on Jun 29, 2017 10:55:21 GMT -5
Is your wife in the same music scene as you? If no, then try to look at this example: your wife starts going to rave parties, stays out till 3-5am jumping around to this ear cancer music intoxicated, and the next day she is unable to do anything with you and you see her in a state that is not the best for her. Wouldn't you disapprove it? Obviously you wouldn't say anything, but it'd bug you. No, I get that totally. She's not into the same music as I am, but that being said she knew who I was and what I was into when we met so it's not at all something she's had to get used to since we were married. Also, I'm not doing this every weekend, and I don't make plans the next day if I can help it. I appreciate that she cares about me being a lump of shit the next day but she knows I need to blow off steam and this is my outlet. I suppose I'm just frustrated that she thinks I should 'grow up'. I'm never gonna stop loving hitting up shows and having a few beverages. Oh yeah, if she's judging you for it, then I can understand why it frustrates you.
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Post by julianlozano on Jun 29, 2017 19:14:19 GMT -5
Going back on topic.
Clients with no creative background or taste that think they can be an art director. Our design team works so hard to make the best and functional product, just for one crazy individual who thinks their idea will look better. I pretty much see projects going completely downhill in terms of design aesthetics and it's embarrassing to share.
At the end of the day, they are happy and we get paid but fuckkkk hahaha.
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Post by SHIRT on Jun 29, 2017 19:33:38 GMT -5
I was mostly kidding. But there are plenty of guys out there who aren't fuckboy's. Not that I'm a general example, but I never was growing up, I just was me. You gotta find someone who isn't afraid to be themselves and that you can be compatible with! That's more important than the sex side of things anyway. Everyone has relationships where the other person is just not a good person or fucks you over, but that's okay...it's basically just like practice for the real thing. Hell, I had a girl start dating two other guys behind my back when she was dating me. Hid it for a while. Then casually dropped it on me like I would be okay with it. Ha. But as much as that sucked, it helped me when meeting my current wife, ya know? Anyway, I'm probably rambling, but just keep being yourself and at some point you'll find a great match. q4t, because you seem like a super cool cat, and I truly believe in this (and u, xoxo) im loving the positivity. u peeps are very inspirational <3
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Post by Ghastly Visage on Jun 29, 2017 19:45:04 GMT -5
When promotions near me try to charge $20+ for a local hardcore show when the bands on the bill see none of it and played a house show for $5 dollars the night before. I'm all for supporting the bands and I will gladly buy up all their merch and cds but FUCK promoters that make out like kings.
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